My daughters and I went on a walk the other day. A walk we all needed, having tired of the routine of our days during the holidays. The weather was warm and balmy like most Texas afternoons. We were expecting colder weather over the next few days, so I wanted to stay out as long as I could.
Katie and Sarah hopped on their bikes and I put Megan in her push car. Off we went, rolling over fallen leaves, twigs, and dirt piles left by rain earlier in the week.
I kept up with my bike riders, reminding them to look both ways before crossing the street, and listened to Megan squeal and screech from her chauffeured ride. “Come on Sarah, let’s go faster!” “OK Katie, I go fastew!”
As we walked, we passed the third house we tried to buy when we were attempting to move into this neighborhood. Nestled on a circular lot, the two story on an acre was a fixer – upper. Originally found in pre-foreclosure, we did everything possible to close the deal. While waiting on final word from the bank, we mentally decorated the bedrooms, planned to remove the bar sitting in the middle of the living room, and dreamed of the family movie nights in the media room.
And then it fell through. The bank decided to let it foreclose. Even with a good deal on the table. Go figure.
We headed back home so I could put Megan in the bike trailer. She laughed and wiggled with happiness and we all headed out into the neighborhood again.
We passed the second house we tried to buy. A beautifully renovated one story that had about 98% of what we wanted… except the price tag. The renovators were very proud and would not come down to meet our price. We were very disappointed, and to this day, still are a bit. Especially after we heard they sold it to friends, most likely for what we offered.
As we rode, we passed the original house that brought us into this neighborhood. A neighborhood full of space, trees, and peace and quiet. A place where our children could play in the front and back yards and we didn’t have to worry about a car flattening them as they sped by at 50 on a residential street. A place where they could have friends and memories that consisted of more than just the house. Where pine cones are readily available to paint, leaves are waiting to be collected, and the sounds of children playing resonates through the air.
The first house was a two story red brick beauty on a small hill. With almost it’s entire acre sitting behind it, the privacy it offered was unmatched. The house had one owner, and they raised three girls in it. It seemed destiny that we move in, as planned six weeks after the deal was made. But unforeseen circumstances on the side of our buyer caused us to lose that house on the hill. It took us a while to get over that loss.
As the girls and I peddled back onto our street, our tires crunching feverishly over the fallen leaves, laying as a carpet to greet us, I felt a sense of peace pass over me. After all we went through in the six months that we worked to move here, we ended up in the right place.
A sweet little one story fixer upper next to amazing neighbors, on a beautiful lot, with hundred year old pines and oaks to shade us in the hot Texas sun. The house that offered us everything at a time when we were feeling like nothing was working. We found it by accident, a faded For Sale By Owner sign in the yard, the number faded and almost impossible to read, on a day when we were thinking we were done with the whole deal.
And as I watched my three little girls,now free from helmets and seat belts, running happily down the long driveway, knowing that I do not have to worry, I finally feel at home. In this fourth house, found by accident, closed on in a hurry, wonderful home.
**Originally Published 1/12/2011**
Isnt it amazing how we have all these thoughts of what home SHOULD be, yet when those ideas they fall through and reality falls short of those dreams, we learn that home is really where we are with the people we love? And it is SO MUCH BETTER than we thought.
What a beautiful story. God has a way of placing us exactly where we need to be.
It’s great to hear about life’s ups and downs; I am trying to get my first home right now and it can be discouraging. Thanks for the inspiring reminder!
You are so welcome! This was my 3rd home and the most frustrating, for sure, but the most worth it!
That is awesome how you found your house and made it a home. I have been in my house for 12 years now and it’s exactly where I am supposed to be.
It’s great to find an amazing home!
It is so difficult in finding the perfect home. I’m in my second home and have just listed the 1st one however am still looking for my dream home.
This one is mine, but it took a while :)
I think you found the perfect home for your family. That faded sign was a fateful sign!
Yes it was :)
It is so great you found the perfect home. It makes all the difference in the world to be happy where you are.
Yes it does :)
Home shopping is one that I’ve never truly enjoyed. Sure, I love seeing different floor plans, and creating a mental picture in my head of what the home could look like but then there’s the whole “gotta get approved for a loan” issue which could make or break the deal. I’m glad you got a home that your whole family can enjoy, even if it wasn’t your first or second pick.
Oh yes, I don’t think I will ever move again. I am still recovering! LOL
WOW that is an amazing story! I can’t believe you had to go through 3 houses before finding the right one – I have never had to house shop before so I wouldn’t know but I am so impressed you kept going to get the right one!
It was a whirlwind for sure!
Awe, so sweet. You got your happy ending despite some hurdles. Buying and selling houses can be a real pain, but you got through it beautifully!
Thank you :)
Incredible story! I love that you ended up with the house with the faded for sale sign–adorable!
Right? It sounds like one of those Lifetime movies my girlfriend watches. Very inspirational.
Isn’t that crazy? LOL
The Rolling Stones said it best. You can’t always get what you want, but if you try, sometimes you get what you need. Great post.
Thank you and YES!! LOL PS: Love the Stones :)
Great story! This is how life is sometimes… and it’s so amazing when it all comes together!
It really is!
Sounds like the perfect dream house.. What a great place to raise children .
It really is :)
I love this story. So well written and full of heart. It sounds like a beautiful place. Are you still in this home?
Aww -thank you :) Yes, 5 years and counting!
Awe… it just goes to show you that maybe things do happen for a reason and you are where you are meant to be :)
I agree :)
Congrats on the new home! It was meant to be!
Thank you :)
Things have a way of leading us to where we ought to be. I’m glad it worked out.
I agree :)
what an amazing memory. i am such a firm believer in things happening for a reason.
Me too! Especially now :)
What a beautiful post – its interesting how life puts us in certain directions. Thanks for sharing!
You are so welcome!
Seriously!!
This was such a great post! It’s funny right? How you think life is going to go 1 way and then it zig zags and you feel off kilter. But, later you realize it’s the way it’s supposed to be…..
Thank you so much!!
Great post. It is interesting how life throws us twists and turns. I am currently moving into a new house…one I wanted to buy 2 years ago but the timing was not right. It happened to come up for sale when the time was right and I bought it!
YEA! That is awesome! :)
It’s great that you finally feel at home. I hope to have the same feeling one day. I don’t love where we live, I’m trying but I don’t like this house, or neighborhood.
I am under the belief that things happen for a reason! I loved finding a home for ourselves but it took some disappointment before that happened. Really great post and congrats!
What a great post and I always say everything happens for a reason… you may not know it at that time and kind of get upsad like you loosing that foreclosure home that the bank wouldn’t budge, or the one that wouldn’t come down in price..there is ALWAYS a reason and later much later you will look back and realize where you are now is exactly where you should be and all is working out..
Aww, there is so much more to the beautiful story than the title holds. At first ?I thought it was going to be about fall, but soon discovered it was much deeper. Everything happens for a reason, and you are exactly where you are meant to be with your 3 beautiful girls!