Let’s face it: We, as women, don’t ever seem to get a break from the lovely surprises our bodies throw us. From puberty to menopause, the ever-changing hormones cause a myriad of symptoms that we have to deal with. It is just part of being a woman and preparing and dealing with the gift of creating children, I suppose. I have dealt with puberty and becoming a women, bore three daughters in my 30s and am now in my 40s I’m watching my body change once again. My monthly cycle has become unpredictable. My hips and breasts seem to be changing again. My private-part care, in general, is becoming something I am having to focus on as well. In fact, for the first time in my entire life, I have now had two bladder infections within a month of each other. It is probably coincidental, but I still blame biology. Dealing with my changing 40 year old body is just not fun. Lately though, I have been reading up on and trying to learn about over-the-counter products I can purchase to help me feel more like me again. In my search, Vagisil comes up most as a trusted source to help combat vaginal dryness and other symptoms of just being a woman. Vagisil is known as the women’s expert partner in intimate health, on a mission to help women around the world feel healthy and confident. In my search, I have also found four ways to deal with my changing 40 year old body.

Exercise is key
I know we all know that exercise and active lifestyles are important, but the older I get, the more I am understanding how much exercise keeps our bodies working the way they are supposed to. Not only is sweat and the extra water we consume as a result great for our skin and organs but as our muscles start to change, exercise can help to make us stronger. Exercise and feeling confident also helps us with our energy level, which can help us have the energy for our families and our partners. Everything just improves when we exercise. From our work life and creativity to our sex lives. So get up, get out and get that exercise that helps balance our entire body!
Find trusted products

We all walk up and down the aisles of Target, CVS and other stores, looking for the right products that will really work for us. If you are experiencing dryness due to childbirth or perimenopause or menopause, knowing which product to buy is a challenge. Everything I have read about Vagisil ProHydrate is positive. Vagisil ProHydrate is a vaginal moisturizer used to relieve dryness anytime or in advance of intimacy. It is formulated to feel like your own moisture so you can feel like yourself again. There are no added perfumes or dyes, and it is fast-acting and works with your natural lubrication. I have it in my home now, and when I feel most dry, like right after working out or after my period where I use tampons, I use it to relieve those irritating symptoms dryness can create.
Talk to your friends
So many of us are so private about what is happening to our bodies. We are embarrassed to talk about natural functions that we all really have. I have found that the more I open up to my friends, the more they open up as well. In addition, almost everything I bring up, they can relate to! Even the icky stuff like vaginal dryness, unexplained odors and the changes in our bodies as we age. There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

Talk to your doctor
As I make my way through perimenopause and experience longer and more unpredictable periods, longer bouts of vaginal dryness (which may make any intimate relationship more difficult) and other body changes that can affect how I feel about me, I may need expert advice in handling it. A talk with a doctor about fears and concerns is never a bad idea. Make your regular appointments, be honest about your symptoms and make the changes necessary to make this time in your life as painless as possible!
Turning 40 was the easy part for me. Taking care of me is a little harder. A single mom with three growing girls, I am often the last one I consider. But my 43-year-old body needs the attention. I am just glad there are products out there that can help when I need them!
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I am and I do talk to friends.
I’m pretty open with my bff about what’s happening with my body as is she about talking to me.
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I’ve already went through most of it. I talked to my older sister about it because she had been there already.
https://twitter.com/tlcfromtn/status/793518578934751232
Yes, I have and I haven’t spoken with friends about it yet. It’s an important topic though!
I believe so but I don’t talk to anyone about it. I search google a lot which scares me more than helps me.
No and I’m too much of a private person to speak about it with anyone.
Yes, I’m starting a bit. I haven’t really talked to friends as yet.
Tweeted: https://twitter.com/peg42/status/793574359470333952
Thanks so much.
I’m 41 and 1 year postpartum but I don’t detect any changes right now. I don’t really talk to friends about that.
tweet–https://twitter.com/mami2jcn/status/793621363915362304
Yes, I’m starting to experience some symptoms and it is a frequent topic of discussion among my friends.
I am experiencing hormonal changes and it is not fun. Mostly terrible hot flashes and other problems that are to personal to tell. I do talk to my sisters about it. But not friends. Too personal.
tweet-https://twitter.com/JewelWood/status/793772812989140993
I am just starting to experience hormonal changes. Cannot wait till I finish this journey. lol
I have been going thru it and I have talked to my friends about it
Yes! I am experiencing hormonal changes! I talk to my friends about it, and especially my mom and sister.
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https://twitter.com/wildnmild4u/status/793781292454273025
I tweeted about this promotion! https://twitter.com/PJGurganus/status/793781890918584320
I’m in my forties and thankfully I haven’t noticed any significant changes yet. My sister and I talk openly about things like this.
I am and do rely on my friends
Thanks for the chance
Yes, going through it and I talk with my friends about it.
https://twitter.com/DEBIJOT/status/793791382053916672
I haven’t experienced any hormonal changes yet. I might still be a bit on the young side for it. I would certainly talk with my friends about it though. We talk about everything.
i tweeted https://twitter.com/fdp4life/status/793813938974683136
I am right there with ya. At 42 years old everything I’ve learned about my body has been in the last 10 years thanks to google. I was always told girls don’t talk about that stuff. We didn’t really have sex ed in school when I was young. I didn’t even know we had 2 holes until just recently and I have 3 children!!
https://twitter.com/nikismithwin/status/793816821640097792
I don’t experience the changes yet.
https://twitter.com/ElenaIstomina/status/793820745864314880
I am not experiencing hormonal changes, but if I was I would talk to someone older that has been through it.
tweet
https://twitter.com/Kellydpa/status/793830906402189312
I am not experiencing any changes yet, but I will talk to my friends about it!
Tweeted: https://twitter.com/LoveTrishaXoXo/status/793844661769101313
I’m not experiencing any hormonal changes yet, but once I do start I definitely plan on talking about it with friends and family as well as my doctor.
When are we, as women, NOT experiencing hormonal changes? I am, and do discuss with my closest friends.
No and I do not talk about it.
I just turned 40 this year. I’m definitely starting to notice changes! I agree that I need to be more active.
I shared on Twitter…
https://mobile.twitter.com/acools/status/793865003199664128
No, I’m not expirencing any changes, but I do talk to my friends about it.
The only issue I have experienced so far is weight gain that started when I hit 41. Not fun and I need to exercise more, but I’m grateful that I haven’t seen any of those other issues yet.
When I experienced hormonal changes I did talk to my friends about it.
I tweeted: https://twitter.com/AnnJopb/status/793907042545205248
I am not experiencing any hormonal changes yet but my mom just went through this!
I tweeted: https://twitter.com/yarbr012/status/793913521214001156
No.. thank goodness I’m a dude!
groogruxking40 @ gmail dot com
I do talk to my friends because I had early menopause in my late 30’s so now, being 46 my friends are all going through it. When I went through it, I pretty much talked to my mom and my doc b/c my friends weren’t there yet.
I went through early menopause in my late 30’s and at that time. I pretty much spoke with my doc and my mom because my friends just weren’t there yet. Now I talk to them because they are and they all seem to come to me.
I am not experiencing any changes currently. I think in the future, it would be something I would definitely talk to friends about.
I am long past menopause so I am not really expecting any major changes
https://twitter.com/Attea2d/status/793931077299605504
yes i do. I am 35 and def experiencing some changes. I have been meaning to do a full blood panel so they can look deeper into everything. I know my hormones are off because I am so tired all the time :(
https://twitter.com/1amypugmire/status/793937756397469697
I am not experiencing any changes but if it happens I would talk to my best friend for sure.
tcarolinep at gmail dot com
tweet-https://twitter.com/tcarolinep/status/793951364854358016
No, I’m not experiencing any of those hormonal changes. Thank you for sharing though!
Tweeted – https://twitter.com/lauralynnrose/status/794007953783320576
https://twitter.com/DevonaDianaFrye/status/794042992529182720
Dealing with my 42 year old body has not been easy. I have some health issues that make it even that much harder to deal with. I feel more like 80 years old! LOL I know you’re right about exercise being the key. I’ve asked my daughter to start working out with me and she said we can start right away, so I think after I get used to working out, it’s going to help a great deal! Great post, women need to talk to each other about our changing bodies without embarrassment.
Yes, I am experiencing hormonal changes. I talk to my sister about them since we’re close in age.
tweeted: https://twitter.com/slr8/status/794078290193551360
I definitely am! And I talk to the internet about it lol They’re all my friends!
Tweeted :) – https://twitter.com/Enter_Now/status/794097812317171713
I’m 50 and I started with hot flashes in my mid 30s. I’ve been going through all kinds of interesting hormonal and body changes! My friends and I are very vocal with each other about it!
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https://twitter.com/blessed_nc_mom/status/794119017027932161
I haven’t really experienced any hormonal changes yet. If I do, I’m sure I’ll talk about it with my best friend since middle school!
I shared on Twitter: https://twitter.com/seabattle2/status/794166854268788736
i had a hot flash last week the first one in years,,i had a hysterectomy 30 yrs ago,,and im now 60 and oh yes tons of changes,,and as a retired Nurse i have no problems talking to my friends about my issues
https://twitter.com/vickiecouturier/status/794171202331873280
I am starting to experience som hormonal changes and yes my we do chat about it with friends. Great support!
I am also in my 40’s and I am noticing all those fun changes! Being a woman is not for the faint of heart. Thank you for the giveaway.
not currently
https://twitter.com/myway070/status/794290754768097280
I am not seeing my comment that I just posted so I am posting another one. Yes I am seeing changes and yes I talk to friends.
I go through hormonal changes each month. I am pre-menopausal, but likely not for too many more years.
https://mobile.twitter.com/MdotDrizzi/status/794357547989876746
I’m 44! (wow, I never thought I’d be 44) I am starting to notice some changes in my body. I don’t talk to much about it to anyone, my husband I guess, but I don’t think he can do much by sympathize! lol I also talk to my doctor about any concerns I have.
I meant “but” not “by” :) Need more coffee….
https://twitter.com/MIstatefamily/status/794510949239713796
I talk to my sister about my changes
I have one friend that I talk to about this kind of things it is very helpful.
I talk to my friends and my dr.
https://twitter.com/sweetums82/status/794536865214906368
I TALK TO MY FRIENDS AND I USE SOCIAL MEDIA, LIKE FACEBOOK AS A FORUM FOR MY QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS AS WELL AS MY VSG GIRLS, AFTER HAVING VERTICAL GASTRIC SLEEVE SURGERY I DEPEND ON THEM !
I am not at the moment but I think I’m right on the cusp of it. :\
Hopefully it won’t be that stressful.
thanks!
At 45 I am definitely experiencing a lot of changes but am blessed to have an incredible husband that I can talk to about all of it, he might not completely understand but he listens and lets me vent.
https://twitter.com/sheilamritter/status/794562762282188800
I can see how this would be helpful
I definitely do.I talk to friends about it that experienced the same thing so I am not alone!
https://twitter.com/tatzgrrly/status/794577313543360512
Currently 41 and pregnant, so I am experiencing hormonal changes but due to the pregnancy. I imagine it’ll be a rough recovery and have not spoken to my doctor about it yet. Thank you for the reminder!!
I’m not experiencing to many hormonal changes. Sometimes I tend to get hot/cold quite often.
https://twitter.com/mitadav/status/794614952023785472
I talk to my Dr and friends.
I have been dealing with changes for a few years now and talk to some of my friends about it.
I went through it already but now I deal with underactive thyroid and reactive hypoglycemia.
https://twitter.com/jnbwrs/status/794694564422569985
I am not yet and am a bit anxious about it, honestly. Fortunately, I have my mom as a good resource. I don’t know if I could talk to my friends about it! I guess we will see…
https://twitter.com/xBGIRLx/status/794704622380285953
Yes, through age and illness I have definitely experienced hormonal changes over the last several months. I do not talk to friends per say but have discussed it with my partner and am trying to be proactive with treatment options.
I havent gone through that yet.
Tweeted
https://twitter.com/jessicamillerrm/status/794723170422964224
It’s good to know there are these products available.
I am not experiencing it right now, but my older friends talk about it.
I’m 56 and have night sweats, hot flashes, depression and I seem to be growing a beard. Do I talk about it? Hell, yeah. Misery loves company.
I just started going through menopause. It’s not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Luckily, my friends and I are the same ages so we can share tips on
Sorry, should have finished the sentence with “relieving symptoms”.
I’m long past and made it through with talking to Dr.
I recently turned 41 and I am experiencing hormonal changes, i do talk to my mom about it but other than that I really do not have anyone else to talk to about it that is around my age that can relate
Tweeted https://twitter.com/crazycabana/status/795089378955657216
yes I think I am done but who knows.
No, it isn’t something I have talked to my friends about.
https://mobile.twitter.com/arress83/status/795328749722025984
I honestly have not noticed any hormonal changes (at least not yet).
https://twitter.com/sweeper785/status/795462121932943361
I’ve just turned 30 and am already having changes. My mom is normally who i turn to. Thanks!
https://twitter.com/myWAHW/status/795746025445228544
I’ve had a hysterectomy and only have one ovary left so I’ve been having all kinds of changes. I talk to my doctor.
I have not yet but I know I will soon! My friends and I are pretty open about sharing something we may be experiencing health wise to see if anyone can help with some input on how to handle it.
I’m Almost 38 and have some issues already, including night sweats and lack of libido, lack of energy and weight gain in tummy area. I talk about it to my hubby.. Lol not a great help though.
as a 62 yo woman I have experienced this and have talked to my friends who also have experienced it
I’m not on there yet, but you can be sure I will be talking to my friends and doc when necessary.
I am 44 and have been dealing with changes as well as health issues. Exercise is tough as I don’t have the plantar fascia tendons in my feet anymore. I try by doing pilates at home and walking my son to school.
I’ve hit my 40’s. Talk mostly with my doctor about symptoms. Moods, period patterns and weight changes all bonkers.
Are you experiencing hormonal changes? Do you talk to your friends about it?
The only hormone changes Ive been through, luckily, is when my monthly comes along. My Mother is going through hormonal changes and she has nothing good to say about it, so she will say nothing at all she said.
I tweeted this giveaway: https://twitter.com/Mommyzboyz/status/796741582653444096
I’m a man so the subject hasn’t come up!
I tweeted
https://mobile.twitter.com/saverang/status/796834116272615424
Andysavi.Mom@gmail.com
Yes, I’m almost 39 and my skin has gotten really dry.
I work for a doctor, so no one shy in the office.
I tweeted / https://twitter.com/AudreyS23511436/status/797026579876548608
I’m not there yet, but when I get there, I’m lucky enough to have a few great friends to talk to!
I tweeted: https://twitter.com/adarst213/status/797138414831337472
I finally passed thru those horrible mood swings and hot flashes
https://twitter.com/mkjmc/status/797240627859771393
No, I don’t have any changes and I’m more on the private side so I’m not sure who I would take to about it.
“talk”
I’ll be 50 next year and yes, there are certainly a lot of changes. Although, it annoys me when my husband blames everything on “the change”. lol I usually just do some internet research rather than talking about it.
My tweet:
https://twitter.com/ArtsyChaos/status/797367132589674496
i’m definitely experiencing hormonal changes!
https://twitter.com/showstopper474/status/798234670529998848
Lots of changes and there is one friend that I talk to about it.
I’ve heard the stories about how my changing body will effect me as I grow older but I’m confident there will be usefully products that help me along the way!
I’m still a little young right now, but I’m sure I’ll discuss the issue with my mom and close friends as the time approaches.
Yes I’ve been going through hormonal changes for a few years now. I’m in my 50’s yikes!! I do talk with my sisters about it, as they are older.
Yes, I am experiencing some changes. I am on BC pills to help with ovarian cysts and PCOS. Don’t really talk about it much to anyone since I don’t have any close friends that can relate.
I tweeted. https://twitter.com/DarkMysticNight/status/799821590443782145
I havent experienced the changes yet.
tweet-https://twitter.com/fmd518/status/800393489922060292
I feel like I’ve always been dealing with hormonal changes. Having a kid and birth control seemed to throw things off the most. I talk to friends occasionally about those things but it’s not a regular topic.
I tweeted
https://twitter.com/asleepymomma/status/800934145547444224
I do not think that I am experiencing hormonal changes.
Tweet: https://twitter.com/PrettyHotPink6/status/801156771767316480
I am not currently experiencing hormonal changed but as a nurse I feel very comfortable talking about this issue with others.
I haven’t hit that age yet, but I just turned 30, so I’m on my way. I’m glad there are open conversations about this now.
I shared on Twitter – https://twitter.com/myWAHW/status/802708167838736384
I’m not yet, but will not hesitate to talk to my friends about it when it does happen.
i’m definitely feeling a lot more emotional than in the past
https://twitter.com/linjumimom/status/803337534881275912
yes I am..and was a little bit shy about talking about it..I ended up telling a friend and was happy to see i was not alone
https://twitter.com/onyiakpanisi/status/803620520155459584
I haven’t been dealing with it yet, but I’m 43 so I know it’s on the horizon.
tweeted – https://twitter.com/dmarie824/status/803696997140205569
I just had my 3rd baby so my body is out of wack. No I dont talk to my friends about it,
yes, I am experiencing hormonal changes. no, it is not one of my favorite topics to discuss
winit
I am 67 and my poor body has gone through so many changes too numerous to mention. I have a girlfriend that is a few years older and have known her for 45 years. I can talk to her about anything.
I went through menopause in my early 40s. I had a pretty easy time. My periods just stopped suddenly, but I didn’t have to many hot flashes or anything. The strangest thing was about a year or so into it, i suddenly had a period. My doctor said it’s not at all uncommon for that to happen…but I thought, ‘Wow, I see how women might suddenly find themselves with an unexpected pregnancy when they thought they definitely couldn’t get pregnant any more!’
I tweeted about this giveaway! https://twitter.com/TamraPhe/status/805140607299682308
No I am not experiencing any hormonal changes!
https://twitter.com/mommysweetiepie/status/805205662871367681
I am fifty-nine years old and going through the change of life right now. I do talk to my girlfriends all the time about the craziness of it all. I hate the hot flashes the most!!!!!
I am not at this stage yet but it is good to know
yes, many changes.
Thank goodness my hormonal changes are OVER!!
I have been done with menopause for 10 years.
While I was going through I talked with my friends a lot about it.
thank you
Tweeted https://twitter.com/JalapenoMama/status/810656927374069760
We as Mom’s have to take care of our self first . We all go through changes ,talk about it!
tweet – https://twitter.com/velvet1116/status/811198513786814464
I am definitely in menopause and my friends and I do discuss the changes.
My tweet:
https://twitter.com/macdrap50/status/811306422361321472
I talk to my husband about it and a little bit to friends.
my friends and i talk about everything, including the hormonal changes that we are going through
https://twitter.com/lindilala/status/812149990139293696
I’m approaching 40, so I am experiencing things like loss of skin elasticity and hair thinning. Sheesh!
Tweet: https://twitter.com/HollyStormEtsy/status/812451074674139136
I am noticing hormonal changes. Me and my mom talk quite often about these changes. She is going through menopause.
Yes, I have experienced hormonal changes, but I don’t frequently talk about it.
Not just yet but my friends are all very open so I’m lucky.
https://mobile.twitter.com/GigiLambrusco/status/813254789609885696
Yes. Very much so. I talk about all the hormonal changes with my husband.
https://twitter.com/SuperNeena1/status/813446014128521216
I’m going through menopause and I do talk to my friends about it as they are going through the same thing.
https://twitter.com/susan1215/status/813495342754922496
I am 37 yes old & have recently been battling hormonal acne. Yes, I talk to my friends about it:)
I am experiencing the same as you. It can be very uncomfortable physically and uncomfortable to talk about.
Yes, my best friend and I talk about these things all the time.
i am not yet,but would prob talk to my mom about it
I am in my 50s now and hormonal changes run rampant. I prefer NOT to share my private issues with others…so no..I do not talk to my friends about my issues.
I’ve been through it and talked to my doctor about it.
Tweeted
https://twitter.com/eswright18/status/813948873764900866
I have had hormonal changes and for some reason have not talked to friends about them in much detail. I have discussed symptoms with Doctors and read a lot on blogs and medical sites.
https://twitter.com/lightlovebeing/status/813961676089212928
I am not experiencing any issues as I approach 40. Yet anyway.
tweet
https://twitter.com/Btrover1977/status/813992374611406848
nope don’t talk to friends
I haven’t been noticing any changes yet. I would talk to my friends about them if I had any. We talk about everything.
https://twitter.com/fdp4life/status/814203635638894596
I have in the past – and I have one friend who knows TONS about it, so she’s always my first call! So thankful to have her as my information source!
https://twitter.com/Giantsis/status/814204360649543681
I have been dealing with them for a few years now and no I have not really discussed them with anyone so far!
I tweeted
https://twitter.com/my4boysand1/status/814254675990118400
No I haven’t gone through any hormonal changes.
Yup—I began menopause at 44, surgically-induced. I’m not shy to talk to people about it.
https://twitter.com/rubylorikeet/status/814403183610982401
I have a few more years before I start to experience any of those changes so we aren’t talking about them yet. I”m sure we will tho cause my bestie and I are pretty much an open book.
I tweeted! https://twitter.com/ClairFreebie/status/814518482805125120
I am 39 and I have not yet started to experience hormonal changes. But I do have friends who have and we do discuss it :)
TWEETED https://twitter.com/JAIVIANSMOMMY/status/814522597723480064
I am and i do talk to friends. They help me through a lot
I’m very open to talking to my lady friends and doctor about what’s going on with my body. If you don’t express any issues how do you know what’s normal or not. Too many women die each year from easy prevention because they are embarrassed from the symptoms.
I’m not personally experiencing any hormonal changes, but a good friend is, and she talks to me about it.
https://twitter.com/SkyShyskyk/status/814573435510804481
My sister and I share a lot of advice about health issues with each other. We’ve both had hormonal problems- she had a full hysterectomy before age 35, and I have had thyroid cancer which affects every other hormone level in my body.
My 40s were a breeze in comparison to my 50s. I’m going on 5 years of hot flashes, weight gain and body changes. Seems like all we do is talk about it — my sister is 2 years older so talking to her is extremely helpful.
Tweet: https://twitter.com/contest_crazy/status/814644489016983552
It sounds like a wonderful product, I haven’t tried it yet.
No hormonal changes for me yet but I would talk to my sister about it.
I feel like I’m always having hormonal changes.
Always! As women is seems like we pass through one stage on to the next so quick! I am 43 already and always talk about them with friends!
https://twitter.com/SeymaShabbir/status/814961495566151680
No hormonal changes for me yet but I’m sure I would discuss it with my closest friends
I have been experiencing changes but I don’t talk to my friends about it. It’s embarrassing.
https://twitter.com/KittieKad/status/815242960212295680
No but not sure I would
https://twitter.com/theshadedmoon/status/815308347071078400
My wife does and she does chat with her friends about it
https://twitter.com/ardy22/status/815359590040793090
i have been going through hormonal changes due to changing Birth control, i do talk to my friends about it!
My BFF and I are pretty open about conversations about our body changes. We both had a hysterectomy at an early age. I also talk to my doctor about things.
I tweeted about the giveaway https://twitter.com/aqualina56/status/815421951380520960