I do it every single day. Wait until the very last minute to get things done. I goof off and play around with the kids, check my computer like an obsession, and find any reason in the world not to get done what I need to get done.
Laundry. Dishes. Sweeping. Dusting. Bed making. Toilet cleaning. And on an on.
And then I look up, see the clock, and realize that is is 4:30pm, my husband will be home soon, and my house looks like something off the TV show, “The Cleaning Challenged.”
Begrudgingly most days, I stop whatever I am doing, and get to work. I can not let the hubs come home to a messy house. I just can’t.
I mean, seriously, I am alone with these kids 13- 14 hours a day. You would think, in that time, I could clean the entire house! Have it shining like the top of the Chrysler building – sorry, Annie flashback – and running like a fine oiled machine.
But no… I fail daily.
And the worse part is, if my husband does come home and I have not at least looked like I have made an attempt, I see ‘that look’ on his face and it ruins my whole day.
So, why, pray tell, can I not get my house clean and keep it clean? Why do I step over the same toy 5,698 times when all I have to do it pick it up? Sure, there is a toy every 2 steps but still.
I am not a lazy person… I don’t think. And I am on top of everything else. And I adore a clean, sparkling house and want it clean. So the desire is there!
The only conclusion I can come up with is that – as a stay at home mom – I have mastered the art of procrastination. It has become a life skill. Meant to protect me from the absolute boredom of daily household chores. And evolutionary trait that could not be avoided, altered, or changed.
I simply can not help that I now wait til the last minute.
So, I embrace my new personality disorder with pride. Like the mane of a lion, procrastination is now my badge of motherhood! And secretly, I kinda have no desire to remove it.
So I happily announce that I will continue to play with my kids, run with my dogs, and find any other reason in the world not to do what I am supposed to be doing until the very last minute!
And take this opportunity to let everyone know that I will make it an art form. My life’s passion to be the best at it I can be. Right after I go read some books to my kids.
And to my husband and that look that I get… I love you honey, but from now on… that is MRS. Procrastinator to you!
Ha you should leave him with all three kids for a few weeks while you go off to work! I bet the first week you can eat off the floors, the second week you can see the floors and the third week he will be satisfied that the children are alive and he is still sane and screw the mess!!
ROFL!!! I agree!! I left him for a weekend a few weeks back and it was AWFUL!! LOL Leaving him again in 3 weeks… oops ;)